Contributor: Nathan Mellor

Nathan Mellor holds a doctorate of education in organizational leadership and serves as president of Character First and of Strata Leadership. He writes a monthly article for Character First the Magazine.

New Cars and Good Decisions

Buying the car that makes sense for my family or the car that makes a childhood dream a reality both provoke an emotional response.... It’s important to have a clear picture of what I really want so that my decision matches my larger goals in life.
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Why Are You Here?

Recently I asked two of my MBA classes to share their motivation for life. I wanted to know why these men and women take graduate level courses while also attempting to juggle their personal and professional obligations.
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The Color of Humility

I know this might sound a bit odd, but when I think of the character quality of humility, I think of crayons.
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An Attitude Worth Catching

When we witness others choosing to maintain a good attitude in the face of personal loss, illness, or setbacks, they teach us how to react with grace and purpose.
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Trustworthiness Before Flexibility

I recall talking with a four-star general about planning for war. He believed planning was very important but also understood that all plans are subject to change as soon as the shooting begins. Consequently, in preparing for battle, developing a war plan is important but not nearly as important as cultivating a culture of trust and discipline.
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Building Life Around Something Bigger Than Yourself

Although his football teams were successful...their stories are rarely about the classroom or the football field. They tell how he helped them by being a listening ear, how they called him when they were in trouble, and how he refused to give up on them.
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What kind of loyal are you?

In our office, we utilize what we call the 10 percent rule. I learned of this approach from Bill Hybels, who observed his staff would tell one another 90 percent of the truth and stop short…. He asked them to give one another “the last 10 percent.”
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Oil Changes, Handshakes, and Apple Pie

Being hospitable is a key building block in our desire to build strong networks and communities. Even in the fast-paced information age, we still appreciate welcoming a new neighbor with a homemade pie or loaf of bread.
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Credible Leadership

When I was first introduced to Character First, I thought, “Is that really a character quality?” I had often associated the concept of persuasiveness with manipulation. Indeed, as I researched the idea in greater detail, I realized the two concepts were similar—with one glaring difference.
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Dear Readers...

Of all of the important lessons learned this past year, perhaps the greatest is my appreciation for character infused leadership. I believe character is an essential component to building trust and lasting relationships and it is an honor to be able to work with others who share in this belief.
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